Common Sense Recipe For Becoming More Attractive

I encourage both men and women to have ambition and to convey it when they interact with the opposite sex.
Some young people are put off by this and ask me why they should be ambitious in order to attract the man or woman of their dreams.

What if they just want to have a normal life?
It's a good point, but look at the definition of "ambition":
1. An earnest desire for some type of achievement or distinction, as power, honour, fame, or wealth, and the willingness to strive for its attainment
2. The object, state, or result desired or sought after.
3. Desire for work or activity; energy.
4. To seek after earnestly; aspire to.

I want you to look at definitions #3 and #4.
This is how you should look at ambition.

Honestly, you don't need to aim at becoming Donald Trump or Hilary Clinton. Don't think this will get you a soul mate.
But you should have a specific desire that is important enough for you to put some energy into it.

Not only will you feel more alive, but remember that both men and women know on the subconscious level that if you don't, THEY'll become the only subject of your energy and focus.
This is something that really makes them uncomfortable.

I've seen so many guys and ladies lose their "ambition" as soon as they got into a relationship. Nothing really drove them anymore, except their significant other.
And of course, the moment you start appearing too clingy, you kill the passion in the relationship and put the emotions under locks.

Find a simple project instead that can you keep busy.
Your significant other will admire you.

In the final analysis, the fastest way to become attractive is to have particular goals you want to achieve.

Have an amazing day!