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Last weekend, my kid sister who is learning to play Saxophone brought some interesting musical videos for us to watch. As we watched, we saw a street performer doing something incredible with his Sax. Dozens of people stopped to watch. His hat was full of coins…The money kept coming and coming. Only a few yards away, another man was sighted sitting on the ground (probably drunk) with a cardboard sign saying: "I don't have a job, need money for food." People ignored him and his hat had barely any money in it. Hold the pictures of both men in your mind. You are looking at how attraction works. The man or woman of your dreams don't flow to you because you need a relationship partner. They don't flow to you because you are good to settle down. They flow because of VALUE. The good news is, when it comes to attracting a great partner, value is mostly based on having an attractive character. If you want someone in your life who truly has grea

FEAR prompts you to fight or flee. It's how our brain is designed. Fear can destroy your chance of going after the things you really want. I know because, for a long time, fear controlled my professional life. I was afraid to be social. I was afraid to start writing. I was afraid of being rejected. So, I missed a lot of great opportunities. I tried to repress and deny my fear, but it was still there like a pack of relentless dogs chasing me. No amount of rationalization would calm me down. But here's what I eventually learned: The fear will never go away, but it can lose its grasp on you if you just admit that you are afraid, and ask for help. When a child is afraid at night, what does he do? He screams and runs toward his parents' bedroom. He jumps in his mother's arms and falls asleep, almost instantly. He's not trying to pretend that he's not afraid laying in his bed, anxiously, for hours. We wrongly assume that the opposite of c