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The Axiomatic Truth About Attracting The Man/Woman of Your Dreams

Last weekend, my kid sister who is learning to play Saxophone brought some interesting musical videos for us to watch.
As we watched, we saw a street performer doing something incredible with his Sax. Dozens of people stopped to watch. His hat was full of coins…The money kept coming and coming.
Only a few yards away, another man was sighted sitting on the ground (probably drunk) with a cardboard sign saying:
"I don't have a job, need money for food."

People ignored him and his hat had barely any money in it.

Hold the pictures of both men in your mind.

You are looking at how attraction works.


The man or woman of your dreams don't flow to you because you need a relationship partner.

They don't flow to you because you are good to settle down.
They flow because of VALUE.


The good news is, when it comes to attracting a great partner, value is mostly based on having an attractive character.

If you want someone in your life who truly has great worth, you MUST develop an attractive character.

If you don't, you will have to rely on short term solutions like sex, money, gifts or looks to attract lame partners who don't even make sense.

Fortunately, developing an attractive character is very easy with these few ideas from Dr . Alan Zimmerman:
1. Decide to be self-supporting. Take responsibility for your life...
2. Seek continual education. No one is perfect. Everyone has room for improvement...
3. Spread kindness...
4. Work on yourself...
5. Pursue excellence...
6. Add value to whatever you do.
7. Practice persistence...
8. Determine to be determined.


And I add, be fervent in serving the Lord.

Have an amazing day!

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