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5 Types Of Men You Should Never Date

I'll start by saying this: Most often, relationship failure and disappointment is not necessarily a function of what went wrong in the dating process, but a function of dating the wrong person in the first place. It's therefore important, that you know the attributes of the 5 types of men never to date, from the standpoint of common sense.

The first one is DRIVE.
To have a drive means to have clear goals, aspiration, and a vision for one's life. The man with a drive is also intelligent because he feeds his mind with good information through books, tapes, and seminars.

If your critical assessment of the man in your life shows he is lacking in drive, RUN!
Such a fellow is not likely to go far in life.

The second is IMPACT. You don't want to be stupid, and fall for a man who has nothing to contribute to your life. He doesn't challenge you to dream big or attempt great things. He doesn't respect you, share your values or even stay true to you. All he cares is how to get in your mind and get in your bed.
Such a man doesn't deserve a place in your life. RUN!

The third one is MAGNETISM.
If you watch TV, it's easy to get lost in which traits most women will find attractive in men.
There are many traits women universally find attractive, such as leadership, sense of humour, confidence, and so on. If he doesn't posses any of those magnetic skills, he's a bad market for you. RUN!

The fourth is STRENGTH OF WILL AND OPINION. Does he hold to his opinions and thoughts, even if he gets a negative reaction from others without being abrasive? If he does, that's someone you can call a man. Polar to this = RUN!

The fifth and most important is A WINNING ATTITUDE.
The prime reason you should never date a man without a winning attitude is because without it, he'll hardly be able to make sense of his existence.

There are 3 components to a winning attitude.
1. Taking 100% responsibility for  one's life, results, emotions, the good, the bad, and everything in between…
2. Taking action…FAST. Not waiting for the stars to align or the permission of someone.
3. Having a sense of humour about one's self. Not taking one's self too seriously.

You don't need a prophet to tell you when someone has a winning attitude, because such attitude is contagious.

Here's the bottom line:
If you want to be happy in your relationship and save yourself from trouble, then it's important to avoid the 5 types of men we have examined in today's discussion.

Have an amazing day!
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