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4 Types Of Women You Should Never Date

When it comes to choosing a female partner you want to share your life with, there are several attributes you want to look out for before diving into a long term commitment.

These attributes cut across the spiritual, biological, sociocultural, and common sense dimensions. The spiritual dimension is a case for your own spiritual reality, so also is the biological, sociocultural and any other dimension you want to take into account. However, I'm going to share 4 important attributes that you should look for, from the standpoint of common sense.

The first one is LOYALTY. Nothing will hit you harder than being with a woman who's disloyal. This is one of the things that can destroy your faith in women forever. And you don't want that to happen. When you start dating her, ask very casually and jokingly if she's ever cheated in past relationships. Put her at ease, appear non-judgmental, and get the truth. If she admits that she actually did, RUN!

The second is POSITIVITY. You want someone who has a positive outlook on life - someone who values success and prosperity. Without getting too political, stay far away from anyone who has a problem with money, sense of industry, and individualism. Consciously or subconsciously, she'll kill your ambition = RUN!

You also want someone who is GROWTH-ORIENTED. If you meet a woman who reads non-fiction books, listens to tapes, and attends seminars, you’re golden. Growth-oriented women are gems. If she knows everything about the latest TV shows or top celebrity gossips, but can't tell you any non-fiction books she's read, RUN!

I’d also add PHYSICAL FITNESS. This might sound a bit controversial but it's the truth. Bottom line: Don't settle with or marry a woman who doesn't exercise regularly. No regular exercise = RUN!

To go even farther, I want to add something very important about selecting women. The single, most important measure of knowing someone is right for you is, how much do you enjoy her company?

We'll shift our attention to men, next time.

Have an amazing day!
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