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How To Create Impact In A Hostile World

Yesterday, I read a very sad story about a man who was asked to leave a plane because someone next to him felt uncomfortable. There are two ways to look at this story. The first is to be upset. The second one is to be upset AND learn something about it. I always try to learn something, even when it's painful. The lesson I want to share with you is that the world is constantly judging you. They judge the way you talk, your dressing, your ethnicity, your demeanor. They make assumptions about you instantly, based on what they see. It's unfair, but it's a reality. And NO ONE is safe from this. The good news is that people are so shallow that just by controlling how you're perceived, you can create positive impact on others. And as a result, attract more opportunities. Politicians and celebrities know this too well. Depending on the social and political climate of their time, a lot of celebrities have changed their name to fit and create success i

A Must Read For Every Serious Income Earner

Recently, I was revising the notes I took from a business training I attended sometime ago, so I decided to share with you an incredible business insight that will change your perspective. Between earning linear income and passive income, which is better? Well, to make sense of the question, let's attempt a distinction between linear and passive income. If you're being paid once per month for the work or services that you have provided, chances are you're earning a linear income. Linear income is also called active income, where you earn one unit of income for one unit of your effort. To earn a linear income you also need to be present at your supposed workplace. Hence, doctors, lawyers, hawkers, or practically every employed or self-employed person are earning linear income. If they don't attend to their clients, they don't get paid. What about passive income? It is an income that you continue earning even when you're not working.

7 Questions To Ask Yourself In Difficult Times

In difficult times, it's important to take time to think. Don't get emotional. Instead, ask yourself good questions. Good questions should make you think harder and deeper. Good questions, for example, are: What's really going on now?   What can I improve right now?   What's the real issue here?   What could be a simple and easy solution?   What am I avoiding here?   Who can help me?   What can I do now to make progress? Life is about problem-solving and taking action on your solution. I used to always freak out when I faced challenges. I still do sometimes, but I quickly calm myself and answer some of these good questions in writing. Asking yourself good questions and writing the answers help you clarify your thoughts, which will calm you down. The beauty of this is it will also make you more proficient at solving your problems. For example, you'll start noticing patterns, like avoiding certain things or common recurring root problem

Thinking Outside The Box

I've wondered where this phrase "think out of the box", came from. Well apparently, it's believed to come from a nine dot puzzle (a square of 3x3 dots). The rules of the puzzle to connect all the dots using only straight lines in such a way as to do it in the least amount of lines. All of the dots must be used. The square of dots is considered to be the box. The solution requires you to draw outside the square (box). You draw a line through the first row of dots. Then extend the line outside the box (to the right) so that you can draw a line to diagonally connect the last dot of the second row with the middle dot of the third row. Again, you extend that diagonal line outside the box until you can draw another line through the entire first column of dots. Then you simply draw a diagonal line down the middle to complete the connection to the rest of the dots. The term takes on a more metaphoric meaning today, where the box represents the confi

Why Most People Are Not Very Successful

I've been asked a couple of times, how someone can change his life or achieve something worthwhile...and my suggestion has remained the same: TAKE ACTION! You see, our brain and body have a natural tendency to get back to a passive, unconscious state even after being animated. This is why you find yourself spending two hours on YouTube without realizing it or you get sad or depressed over something that happened five years ago. It's like quicksand. It's very insidious because it happens gradually, without even realizing it. Hours pass, then days, then weeks, then months, then years, and suddenly we ask ourselves, "Where has my life gone?" I don't watch TV. I don't like it. It bores me and doesn't make me feel alive. What do you think I've used that time for over the past couple of years? I’ve built my business skills, taken short courses in Europe, Australia, North America and here in Africa, tried new things, met some gr

How Not To Be Boring In Your Dating Relationship

One of the biggest dating relationship sins for millennials is being BORING. Women love interesting men just like men love women who know how to naturally trigger attraction... Most people read and watch the same stuff. They check the news that automatically populates on their browser, watch the same trending videos on YouTube or social media, and go to the same place over and over. No wonder they don't have interesting things to talk about while dating. If it's not erotic fantasies, then it's the same set of boring questions repeated every single time... What you need to do is read and watch interesting stuff, and you WILL become more interesting. And with the internet, it's easier than ever. Here are a few places to get started: Thought Economics – Interviews with the world's leading thinkers ( https://thoughteconomics.com ) Google Trends – See what's trending on Google ( https://trends.google.com ) Futurism – Transformative tech

The 5 Second Rule

Do you ever find yourself making to-do lists and then not following through on them? Like every single day? Or thinking to yourself, "What the heck is wrong with me? I know what I'm supposed to be doing, why can't I just do it?" Trust me. I AM YOU. But this is what I've found: 1. Knowing what to do will never be enough. 2. Knowing why you need to do it will never be enough. If you don't start doing the things you don't feel like doing, you will wake up one year from today and be in exactly the same place. I recently learned a new technique called the 5 second rule by Mel Roobins. Here's the one-liner definition of the 5 second rule: If you have an impulse to act on a goal, you must physically move within 5 seconds or your brain will kill the idea. So if you have a goal of gaining more respect in the workplace, you have to raise your hand the next time you're in a meeting and you have a great idea. If you have a goal