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If any aspect of your life is at the bottom, you have nowhere to go but up. But if you continue to feel sorry for yourself, hope that others will support you or just wait for something to happen, you’re going to be waiting a long time for positive changes, if they happen at all. It's sort of like when you know you need a breakthrough in your finances. No one can do it for you. Acquiring financial education through books and other alte rnative sources, cultivating an attitude of giving, starting small in terms of running a business or getting a paid employment, living within your means and saving for future investment, it's all up to you. Sure, you can have a team of people who help encourage you to keep hope alive, but those people can't activate the breakthrough for you Taking action for your personal success is entirely your responsibility. And it's not as hard as you think. Here are a few tips Kim Kiyosaki wrote in a blog to help you start t

I encourage both men and women to have ambition and to convey it when they interact with the opposite sex. Some young people are put off by this and ask me why they should be ambitious in order to attract the man or woman of their dreams. What if they just want to have a normal life? It's a good point, but look at the definition of "ambition": 1. An earnest desire for some type of achievement or distinction, as power, honour, fame, or wealth, and the willingness to strive for its attainment 2. The object, state, or result desired or sought after. 3. Desire for work or activity; energy. 4. To seek after earnestly; aspire to. I want you to look at definitions #3 and #4. This is how you should look at ambition. Honestly, you don't need to aim at becoming Donald Trump or Hilary Clinton. Don't think this will get you a soul mate. But you should have a specific desire that is important enough for you to put some energy into it. Not only will you fee

One of my very successful virtual coaches told me that if there were ONE key to success in all endeavours of life, it would be simply "DEFIANCE."   An attitude of defiance is solely a resistance to surrender to social norms and the status quo. It's the man who quits his job in a recession to start a business. It's the young person who gives up his many years of formal education to pursue his passion, not minding what people would say. It's the man who chooses to create abundance in the midst of scarcity. It's the man or woman who has the courage to be the first of his/her kind to achieve a particular goal. The world is full of fainthearted, self-doubting individuals, afraid of making waves and going after what they really want in life. So, cultivating a state of defiance is critical. The world is changing so fast that only those who can rapidly and boldly break free from social norms and "used to be" mentality will win the

If you ask me if success in life is easy to come by, I'll simply tell you the obvious: NO! But if you focus on the first step of whatever you want to achieve, the most difficult part would have been taken care of. Here is an interesting story to buttress my point. One day, I was at a camp meeting and I met this aspiring writer. I asked him how his book was coming along. "I didn't really getting started… I'm not sure my stuff will be good enough…" He was so insecure about his writing that he didn't even START writing anything. It's hard to become good at something you don't practice. I just explained to him that what really matters is taking the first step. The first step is really all that matters. If you can be the man or woman who always takes the first step, you become a force of nature. That's a really counter-intuitive secret to success. Every success I've had in my life was created because I took this first step.

When you want to get your significant other totally devoted to you, you need to take a few things into consideration. I made a list of the things you need to pay attention to, particularly in marriage relationships. 1. Can he or she be devoted to someone? Realistically, there are relationship partners who will cheat, lie, and betray you with impunity… So, it's important to be selective with the man/woman you want to spend your life with. This is so important that if you make a mistake, you'll most likely live with it for the rest of your life. 2 Are you constantly developing yourself? If you have any of those common issues and problems that most people seem to have - like jealousy, control issues, pettiness, sloppiness, the tendency to be a chuff, etc., it would benefit you greatly to work on fixing those traits and becoming a more secure, emotionally stable and likeable individual. 3. Are you creating an atmosphere for deep ROMANCE? Maybe you overestima

The Science Of Being Great by Wallace D. Wattles is one book I recently read and I've not been able to recover from its tremendous impact. As a matter of fact, no words can describe the incredible wisdom found on the pages of the book better than the words of the author himself: “This book is for the men arid women, young or old, who wish to make the most of life by making the most of themselves. I have tried to show plainly, simply, and without unnecessary words, the way to power and capability; it is written so that he who runs may read. I know that the system herein set forth will work; it cannot fail. And I know that the men and women who practice these methods of action with sincere hearts will enter into the powerful life; they will be the children of the Highest, and stand among the great ones of the world. I hope you who read this will be among them… No mere reading of books can develop a great personality; nothing can make you great but thought; therefore think, Think, T

I'll start by saying this: Most often, relationship failure and disappointment is not necessarily a function of what went wrong in the dating process, but a function of dating the wrong person in the first place. It's therefore important, that you know the attributes of the 5 types of men never to date, from the standpoint of common sense. The first one is DRIVE. To have a drive means to have clear goals, aspiration, and a vision for one's life. The man with a drive is also intelligent because he feeds his mind with good information through books, tapes, and seminars. If your critical assessment of the man in your life shows he is lacking in drive, RUN! Such a fellow is not likely to go far in life. The second is IMPACT. You don't want to be stupid, and fall for a man who has nothing to contribute to your life. He doesn't challenge you to dream big or attempt great things. He doesn't respect you, share your values or even stay true to you. All he cares

When it comes to choosing a female partner you want to share your life with, there are several attributes you want to look out for before diving into a long term commitment. These attributes cut across the spiritual, biological, sociocultural, and common sense dimensions. The spiritual dimension is a case for your own spiritual reality, so also is the biological, sociocultural and any other dimension you want to take into account. However, I'm going to share 4 important attributes that you should look for, from the standpoint of common sense. The first one is LOYALTY. Nothing will hit you harder than being with a woman who's disloyal. This is one of the things that can destroy your faith in women forever. And you don't want that to happen. When you start dating her, ask very casually and jokingly if she's ever cheated in past relationships. Put her at ease, appear non-judgmental, and get the truth. If she admits that she actually did, RUN! The second is POSIT

We live in exciting times. There are many opportunities for anyone who cares to awaken the sleeping giant within. But you have to know why you wake up in the morning. Every individual should have three definite purposes in his life to keep him moving forward. If you still don’t know, here are three you can use: Pursue the life of your dream Help someone realize his full potential Fulfil kingdom mandate Read them when you wake up in the morning and focus on them all day long. Keep them on your phone and read them silently when you have downtime. You'll feel happier and more motivated. The world will celebrate you. People will respect you. Nothing can stop a man with clarity of purpose. Have an amazing day!

Have you ever had people around you who were putting you down or being cynical about things you wanted to achieve in your life​? Maybe you want to resign from a particular job to pursue your own dreams and some of your friends mock you, saying that you don't know what you're doing. Maybe you want to start a business and your colleagues cringe and keep reminding you about the “bad economy”. We all get this crap. It's part of life. Even if you can reduce these nuisances, there is also one thing that you should keep in mind that will help you tremendously. All of the people who mock and criticize have really only one goal: TO MAKE YOU STOP TAKING ACTION. This is the clear subconscious agenda of anyone who doesn't support you in your goals and dreams. Their comments, criticism, mockery, or even hatred is the weak weapon they're using to discourage you from taking action and stepping out of the comfort zone. Once you realize that, you're

When it comes to understanding business, time and money, you need common sense as much as you need business education. There are generally 4 types of people in the world: (1) No time, and no money. Most employees fall into this category. You can't go shopping on a Tuesday afternoon or fire your boss whenever you like. Most employees can't even save money for retirement and they still have no time to maximize their youth. What a terrible category to be in! (2) No time, lots of money. Self-employed, professionals and small business owners are in this category. They are slightly better off than the employee because they earn more, but they have to work even harder than employees to keep up with the diminishing profit margins, competition and servicing their customers. (3) Got time, no money. A lot of farmers, villagers, college dropouts, young graduates or bums have lots of time but no money. Maybe ignorance is bliss, but without a stable source of income,

There’s an old saying by Lao Tzu that says: "Be careful what you water your dreams with. Water them with worry and fear, and you will produce weeds that choke the life from your dream. Water them with optimism and solutions, and you will cultivate success." We all have dreams, and it's a good thing. The spirit needs to believe in something higher and bigger. The most important thing in life is to work a little bit every day on your dream. It doesn't matter if it's 15 minutes or 2 hours. Every day, we must make progress on our dream. Every day, we need to water our dreams for them to grow. You'll be amazed at how far your dreams can take you when you do something small in their direction on a daily basis. Every day, invest at least 15 minutes and make progress on a dream you have. Even if it's crazy. It could be reading a book, sending an email, doing a Google search, making a phone call, writing the first line of the book you dream to write. Any

The world is changing rapidly, and there are plenty of opportunities for people like you, craving for meaning and engagement. The key is to keep learning new skills and becoming your best self. A few years ago, I made a commitment to myself, and it changed my life. My commitment was that I won't go anywhere on my own without reading a book or listening to an audio program. So I invested in what I call the greatest university on earth: An iPod. I started with an iPod before upgrading to a Smartphone that even makes life a little smarter. I load these mobile devices with motivational eBooks, business, and discipleship training materials, and also podcasts and interviews with experts. I don’t go anywhere without reading or listening to something that either uplifts my soul or enhances my skills. I learned negotiation, to inspire confidence in people, manage my emotions, start a business, and many other skills, just using my mobile devices. There's something magica

Whether in the field of business, entertainment or sports, the best results and fun in life come from mastering something. You must recognize this fact and incorporate it into your psyche, if you truly want to be a voice in the world. There are 3 types of mastery. The first one is cognitive mastery: the understanding of something. It won't take you far, unfortunately. The reason is because a lot of people understand that unless they take daily actions towards their goals, nothing will happen. Yet so few do. The second one is emotional mastery. It's when you feel good about something, because you understand it, AND had positive experience with it. Think of the fellow who once in a while manages to revisit his deserted goals. He’s well above the man who only has cognitive mastery, yet far from being a master. The third one is physical mastery. It's when every part of your body has absorbed the skill. It only happens after REPETITION and CORRECTION. Have you eve

When you want to get on top of your game, and crush the enemy called average, it’s all about removing constraints and obstacles on your way to the top. It's very hard to stand out in a crowded world as ours when you have things between you and your goals. Become ruthless about keeping only what's necessary in your life. Anything that doesn't have a particular usage needs to go or be trashed. The reason is simple: If your life is too clumsy, you'll live in a total disorder and your life will perpetually be in disorder. So clear the crap from your life. The mobile apps, the habits and addictions, the food, the clothes, the electronics, the people… Understand what REALLY matters to your life. Put your energy there. Do this rather than falling into the common trap of occupying your existence with trivialities. Things that make you mediocre and unable to soar high. Have an amazing day!